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Attachment to Your Sexual Abuser (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about a listener who feels attached to her sexual abuser.August 28, 2017Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://...
Psychodynamic Theory (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about psychodynamic theory. The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://ww...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 9 - The Cause)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 10, 202500:00 Obsessive and abusive love15:33 Are these examples of limerence?39:12 Stages of limerence46:27 What is the cause of limerence?1:01:27 Addiction NeurologyBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBeco...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 8 - Erotomania, Revenge P__n, Transference)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 9, 202500:00 Erotomania35:04 Sex crimes & stalking1:00:33 Transference1:09:08 Twin Flames and other concepts1:14:02 Why is limerence a neglected topic?Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: htt...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 7 - Somatic and Differentials)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 8, 202500:00 Fictional examples of limerence16:38 Somatic symptoms38:27 History of limerence1:00:23 Normal infatuation1:01:16 Relationship-OCD1:13:13 Borderline and preoccupied attachment1:18:07 Prolonged grief1:28:37 Love addiction1:33:11 Obsessive...
Self Disclosure (Deep Dive) (2017 rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on therapist self-disclosure. November 6, 2017 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comM...
The Psychology of the Fyre Festival (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the Fyre Festival disaster and the psychology of its organizer, Billy McFarland. Is he a psychopath? Is he a victim of capitalism? Were we all subject to a mass delusion? February 6, 2019Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 6 - Stalking and Other Behaviors)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 3, 202500:00 Refining qualifiers& the cycle16:08 Was Kendra displaying limerence?27:03 Stalking53:25 Compulsive checking1:07:48 Astrology & tarot1:10:56 Rumination & reassurance seekingBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 5 - Emotional Symptoms)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence.December 2, 202500:00 Limerence in the wild17:33 Background anxiety24:51 Continuous tension and hyper anxiety36:47 Constant intrusion46:51 Mood swings1:05:58 Excessive longing1:12:09 Denial1:23:42 Anger at the limerent objectBecome a member: https://www.youtu...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 4 - Intrusive Fantasies and Distorted Signals)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 1, 202500:00 Intro01:45 intrusive thoughts23:12 Daydreaming & fantasy1:02:39 Intense attention & sensitivity1:04:34 What is Crystallization1:14:12 Distorting interpretations of signals1:43:01 Limerence for a therapistBecome a member: https://www.you...
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Domestic Violence (Power and Control Wheel) (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about domestic violence. May 30, 2016Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://psychol...
Domestic Violence (Cobras vs Pitbulls) (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about domestic violence. February 24, 2016Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://ps...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 3 - Signs and Disorder Justification)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 26, 202500:00 Intro05:37 The signs of experiencing limerence18:22 The functional impact28:53 How does limerence disrupt life?46:43 How is it different from a crush?1:06:43 Is it possible to have a healthy relationship?Become a member: https://www.yo...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 2 - Definition and TikTok Reactions)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 25, 202500:00 Dr. Kirk's definitionof limerence09:14 Exploring terminology of limerence12:30 What types of relationships involve limerence?21:48 Clarifying the state of limerence24:59 A 'bad' definition31:05 Reacting to TikTok takesBecom...
Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 1 - I Was Wrong)
Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 24, 202500:00 What is limerence?08:1 How did Dr. Kirk get here?22:48 What does the current research and discourse look like?48:02 An exercise for limerenceBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron:...
Mental Health Hot Takes #4
Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 21, 202500:00 Intro01:16 Self-care culture can cause undue pressure03:42 Teachers should be banned from using mental health terms11:04 Autistic individuals are frequently misdiagnosed with Borderline18:04 Humor is the best coping mechanism18:1...
Fearful Transference (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about being afraid of your therapist. January 21, 2016Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch...
Mental Health Hot Takes #3
Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 19, 202500:00 Intro01:16 There should be therapy for friends03:55 Therapists incentivise their clients to act immorally04:41 Self improvement is a loop that leads to dissatisfaction05:37 There is a lack of resilience of those born after 199012...
Sexual Fantasies (2018 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto talk about sexual fantasies. November 2, 2018Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https:...
Mental Health Hot Takes #2
Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 17, 202500:00 Intro03:21 Post-communist regimes breeds fearful avoidance06:04 Patriarchy is the reason we say 'big egos'11:05 First time clients should read a transference for dummies14:32 More than one thing can be true at once14:42 C...
Shyness and Immigrant Harm
Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. November 14, 2025 00:00 Exposure with social anxiety17:59 How do I be a good therapist and maintain balance?31:20 OPP resentment43:10 How do I handle my in-laws?Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patr...
Patreon Live Stream
The Patreon live stream on Monday did not work. Sorry about that. I think I figured out a solution.
The Psychology of the NXIVM Cult (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the NXIVM cult and the recent arrests of the leaders, Keith Raniere and Allison Mack. Is Raniere a psychopath? Was Allison Mack a victim of Stockholm syndrome? Why do people join cults? February 11, 2019Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7...
Mental Health Hot Takes #1
Dr Kirk Honda, with Isaiah from the Therapy Today YouTube channel, reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 12, 202500:00 Introducing Isaiah03:42 Are kinky people deranged?06:00 Do new therapists just think it's cool?11:14 What is limerence?16:58 Why did Isaiah start TherapyToday channel21:37 ...
Follow-Up Limerence Survey
Link: https://forms.gle/Q9vPEwzrX4D8iQWS8After reviewing the first survey results, I’ve developed some follow-up questions to better understand your experiences.
The Psychology of Ted Bundy (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Why did Ted Bundy kill? How did he become a sexual sadist and a psychopath? What do we know about his history that can explain his obsession? Dr. Kirk Honda explores these clinical questions with co-host Humberto. April 15, 2019.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecom...
Live Stream Fail!
I hate Patreon's interface. I somehow figured it out last time, but alas, this time I failed. Sorry Patrons! I suck at live streaming.... or Patreon sucks at live streaming... someone sucks at live streaming and it's not you.
Eff Your Parents and Dying Therapists
Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. November 10, 202500:00 How does Bob handle unresolved feelings?11:26 How does it feel for Bob to hear Dr. Kirk's anger?33:58 Is it weird to grieve a therapist-client relationship?41:05 Is it ok to take a break from therapy?42:20 Do my partner and I need 3 therapists?B...
Movies, KPop Demons, and Kirk Apologizes
Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about random things.00:00 JonBenét Ramsey responses09:39 Weapons & Kpop25:13 28 Years Later29:23 Wreck-It Ralph31:52 One Battle After Another46:21 Tron: Ares52:30 Doctor Who54:42 Kpop Demon Hunters1:14:22 Existential threats & Dr. Kirk's apologyBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/cha...
