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Ask Dr. Kirk (Mon, Nov 10)
Monday, Nov 10, 1 pm Pacific. Join Dr. Kirk live to ask your questions in the chat.This stream is exclusive to our Patrons and YouTube Members. Thank you for your support!(I think a link will show up on our Patreon page when it starts and/or you'll get an email just before the live stream starts.)
Enneagram Personality Test (2019 rerun)
[Rerun] Is the enneagram personality test valid? Why is it so popular? Can it be used to help people improve their lives or is it just pseudoscience? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more in the mini deep dive into enneagram. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcastBecome a...
Cultural Appropriation Test
Dr Kirk Honda presents his test for cultural appropriation to Humberto.00:00 What is cultural appropriation?10:25 Examples of appropriation16:26 What is cultural appreciation?39:28 Why are conversations important?58:10 Is it appropriation?1:39:30 The Great British Bake-Off Japanese week1:52:37 Final wordBecome a member...
Jeffrey Dahmer and The Dark Tetrad (2019 rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite...
Debunking Attachment Myths #2
Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory.00:00 Dr. Pascal Vrticka01:04 Are dads 'secondary moms'?02:13 Is the Triune Brain Model a good explanation of attachment?09:13 Is synchronybetter for attachment?29:53 Is Oxytocin just the love hormone?36:31 Is Polyv...
Debunking Attachment Myths #1
Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory.00:00 Does disorganized attachment exist in adults?08:12 How many types of attachment are there?53:27 Is attachment good or bad?Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: ...
Why Do We Have Fetishes? (2018 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Yuval Laor about why we evolved to have sexual fetishes.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.c...
Violent Fantasies and Parenting
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.00:00 Do violent fantasies mean anything?24:50 Recent celebrity losses43:31 How did Rebecca develop self-care behaviors?1:03:41 How can parents adjust to their children becoming more individuated?1:16:24 How can parents navigate their own anxiety around the state of...
Countertransference (Deep Dive) (2013 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about countertransference, or the feelings a therapist has about the client. (Intro)Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://ww...
AI Tools for Therapy
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Gregg Spiridellis (founder of JibJab, etc.) about his AI tools for therapists and clients. 00:00 Introducing Gregg Spiridellis04:19 What inspired Moments?14:33 How private is my data?25:40 What feedback have they received?26:33 What is Moments for Therapists?43:47 Could this app be useful?52:25...
Kirk Rant and Bob Grieves
Dr Kirk rants about internet mobs and Bob explores his trauma. (Intro)00:00 Validation and hope01:34 Yay timestamps!07:44 Does a victim of domestic abuse have anything to apologize for?21:24 Does Dr. Kirk still care about Borderline?28:34 What is the difference between disorganized attachment vs. Borderline?39:29 Griev...
Schema Therapy with Bob (Chapter 2) (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas. (This is part 2 of a two-part series.)(Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psyc...
Leftover 17th Anniversary Questions #3
Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey.00:00 What therapy is best for Borderline?04:42 How can I address my own toxic behavior?07:18 Drawing boundaries within-laws08:55 Thoughts on relationship OCD11:45 How can schools pick a competent therapist?18:44 What is the best approach whe...
Schema Therapy with Humberto (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Humberto about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseat...
Your mental health hot takes
I'm collabing with another podcaster -- we're gonna react to your mental health hot takes. Link: https://forms.gle/gxZfvwXnPBe6NbMi9
Cheating On Your Abuser
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron questions.00:00 An abusive relationship and affair31:02 Was the pastor sexually abusive?41:18 Is this a safe relationship or just less bad?52:03 Is infidelity in an abusive relationship ok?1:02:43 What does repair look like?1:07:27 How can I continue to heal from my shame?Become a...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 6 - Final Word)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Grand jury results12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk think wasthe perpetrator?58:16 Why would parents abuse their children?1:02:09 How does being falselyaccused affect you?1:07:28 Do psychologists asse...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 6 - Final Word)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Grand jury results12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk think wasthe perpetrator?58:16 Why would parents abuse their children?1:02:09 How does being falselyaccused affect you?1:07:28 Do psychologists asse...
Schema Therapy with Bob (2019 rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psycholog...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 5 - Intruder Did It)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Did an intruder do it?26:41 Points of dispute33:20 Potential intruder suspects1:26:23Jon Mark Karr's confessionBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Ps...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 5 - Intruder Did It)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Did an intruder do it?26:41 Points of dispute33:20 Potential intruder suspects1:26:23Jon Mark Karr's confessionBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Ps...
Schema Therapy Deep Dive (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Do you have recurring patterns in your relationships that are frustrating? Schema therapy might help. Dr. Kirk Honda talks for over four hours about the theory and how to use it in your life -- our core emotional needs, the schema that develop when some of our needs aren't met, how we habitually cope with t...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey - (Chap 4 - Parents Did It)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Did the Ramseys do it?04:03 Did Patsy do it?43:31 Additional autopsydetails51:43 Did John do it?1:02:52 Did Burke do it?1:24:09 Where Dr. Kirk stands now1:34:23 Interviews with BurkeBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZ...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey - (Chap 4 - Parents Did It)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Did the Ramseys do it?04:03 Did Patsy do it?43:31 Additional autopsydetails51:43 Did John do it?1:02:52 Did Burke do it?1:24:09 Where Dr. Kirk stands now1:34:23 Interviews with BurkeBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZ...
Thank you, Patrons!
Green Shirt Edition.
Patron Live Stream (Mon, 1 pm Pacific)
Monday, Oct 13, 1 pm Pacific. For YouTube Members and Patrons. (I don't know how to share a link or how you will be able to access it. Patreon is not user friendly. I think a link will show up on our Patreon page when it starts or you'll get an email? Not sure. )
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 3 - The Murder)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Autopsy details35:50 Barbara Walters interview with the Ramseys45:14 Detective Ardnt's account57:46 Mystery DNA and additional evidence1:24:51 Psychology of the audienceBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtp...
The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 3 - The Murder)
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.00:00 Autopsy details35:50 Barbara Walters interview with the Ramseys45:14 Detective Ardnt's account57:46 Mystery DNA and additional evidence1:24:51 Psychology of the audienceBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtp...
Infidelity In Therapy (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about infidelity in therapyBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://psychologyinseatt...
