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🌱 Out-takes and out-to-lunch 🪐

I’m so lucky to have my best friend Joie in my life. We vibrate on the same frequency. When we talk we ping-pong back and forth with verbal precision, noises and affirmations and secret short-hand references speed us through what takes most people all kinds of time to convey. It’s skillful. We both live a sensory-b...

Instax Packs Are Back!

I am so excited to share that the slumber party invite has been sent out. (If you’re a sapphic babe who wants to join us please send me a message!) Once again we’re offering Instax Packs for folks who want to support our girl gang aspirations. $15 will buy us a roll of Instax film to capture memories, and we’ll s...

With excitement…

I have two COUNT THEM TWO small social events this weekend. One is music related, and the other is coven and kink related. I’m eager to make joyful noises with friends. I want to sweat and dance. I want to bring my flogger out of hiding. I want to leave some bruises. I want to flex my freedoms.

Framing

I was married to a man who liked bare walls. Simple. Not any more. I’ve been framing all my favourite pieces. Things people have made me, photos I’ve taken, gay art I’ve collected over the years. These are all the pieces for my bedroom. It’s going to be Too Much™ and I’m pretty happy about that. I recently ...

💙

So what do I do with all of my old circus-school uniforms? They’re too casual for a sex party. Unless it’s a casual sex party? I don’t really know what that is. But we should have one maybe. Or maybe a circus themed sex party. But in that case I would wanna come as a ring-leader and make Max be my lion. Wait hol...

Balcony Baby has Good News

Here are some fun hot vax summer shots I took on Joie’s balcony, along with a little bit of good news. Friends and Patrons; I am pleased to announce that in less than 2 weeks we will be having our first Coven event in over a year. The babes are double vaxed and ready to let loose. I can not WAIT to see everyone, get ...

Making Moves and 7 Things 🌱

1. It’s moving weekend for Max! We’re in the sticks at her old place packing up (the dog came with us for one last big backyard bonanza). Then the moving trucks come and we unpack in the new place. Next week she’ll be local! 2. This means it’s our last time having the big empty basement with plush carpet to wre...

This is so exciting I can hardly breathe.

*barring world demise (And yes. You read that right. An entire WEEKEND!!! 🙌)

Switching

Some playful shots of Ms.O and I switching up who’s in charge. June 2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1

Requiem for a late night text…

You ever know your heart is gonna be crushed but you go ahead anyway? What kind of foolishness causes that dopey decision to let it seep in and seem like a good idea? I want it. Even though I know it’ll bite. Even though I know I’ll bleed. Some things are worth the wounds. I say that now, but I’ll be whining over...

New View Who Dis?

Last night was our first night in Max’s new place. We brought an air mattress and she bought a nice bottle of champagne and we celebrated new beginnings. Today the sun was shining and we spent the day exploring her very cool new neighbourhood. We found a park with strap on art, a super cool interactive drum machine i...

Voyeur

I love this voyeuristic shot of O, Kitten, and I at the very first Sapphic Slumber Party. I love her happy face when she’s getting what she wants. (I’m gonna see my kitty girl today for the first time since the Before Times! I can hardly wait to squeeze her!!!) June 2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1

New Vibes/Old Finds

I’ve spent the entire day building new dressers and rearranging my room. And then I spent 5 hours going through my clothes and lingerie. I found some gems! Including these very fancy panties, and this cute little mirror from Kitten. I also found some photos NymphoNinjas took of Ms.O and I years ago, I’ll be posting...

Sunday

I’m alone this weekend. How rare. The kids are with their dad and Max is working. Time to think. I keep just carrying around this book I’m “reading”. But I’m not reading it. It’s hard to focus these days. I try. I had my 2nd vaccine this week, one step closer to orgies and kisses and catching up. I’ve con...

Long Term

I wrote this almost a decade ago. Although I’m no longer married to the person I was with when I tried to articulate how ethical non-monogamy felt to me, I still stand by this explanation. I was wincing at first while reading it, prepared to eat my own words or roll my eyes at my younger less jaded self, but instead ...

Greenhouse

I call it my greenhouse because I meditate and smoke weed out there. There are two overstuffed comfy armchairs, some copper twinkle-lights, and a giant antique ashtray. The roof is see-through and covered in vines, which have made their way inside too. The tendrils are starting to wrap their way around Elly’s paintin...

June 2017

Sapphic fragments, in photos and in words.

Mellow Pills 💊✨

(Content warning: this post includes a graphic description of me taking prescription drugs with the hopes of becoming incapacitated so that my girlfriend and I could play out a consensual non-consent fantasy, but the actual results were... much more comedic than expected. Please make sure you are mindful of how reading...

I can’t stop thinking about it...

Late last night I was drowsy in her arms, cuddled up on the couch. The lights were off, late summer sunset filtering in the dusky room with three candles lit. She slowly pulled on the bow holding my dress together, her eyes locked with mine. She undid the ribbon and pushed the fabric to the side, she put her wet mouth ...

All that’s left...

We are a signature away from dissolving what’s left. Just a stroke of the pen, a few letters and a flourish. It’s been an intense few days. Photo: Me and the almost-former Mister HeartAugust 2013

Summer Solstice ✨🌺☀️

Today was HECTIC! Just fucking hard work, sweat and tears, bitter righteousness and laborious tasks. But I did it. Myself. And at the end of it all I stepped outside to put the garbage to the curb for tomorrow morning (the last job of the day) and the sunset was so bright and stunning. Blazing hot pink, dark smoky grey...

Happy Days

Putting this one out there Like a prayer on the windThat these days will return We’ll be blissful again. Ms. O, Kitten and Heart2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1

Peony Season (Part 2)

If you’ve been around for a while you know this is an annual tradition, and peony season is special to me. Usually the white ones call to me, they’re like fluffy femme bunny tails, with a secret deep pink streak inside. Ms.O says it feels like something you’re not supposed to see, almost erotic. But this year thi...

Kinks and Triggers

(Content warning: In spite of this wholesome photo of my girlfriend curled up asleep on my lap, this post contains elements of consensual non-consent, and some intense discussion of assault and trauma. Please take good care of yourself and be mindful in choosing whether or not to interact with this material.) It starte...

Hours

“I want your desperate kisses. I want your needy hands that squeeze too hard until I yelp. I want your teeth marks and your sweat on my skin, I’m your territory. Leave your scent, mark me. I’m yours, show me. Pull me apart and put me back together.”I beg her for things when I miss her. I write lusty poems in my...

Petals/Thoughts

There is so much grief right now. Grieving my marriage, lifestyle, the future I planned, my vision for our family, grieving the end of what I thought was life-long work. I pictured us getting it right one day, I have to let that go too and grieve that dream with the rest of them. Here lies the cross-country road trip w...

Peony Season (Part 1)

Prayer of Some Kind

“In the crooks of your bodyI find my religion.”-Sappho Ms. O, Kitten and Heart2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1

Power Dynamics

It’s funny to us now that she “isn’t kinky” because what we do is nowhere close to vanilla. Sometimes we’re in the middle of planning out some weird kinky sex and I raise an eyebrow and smirk and she says “what??” with that sheepish face. I just can’t believe we got so lucky, that the things we want and...

Happy Kitten

Happy BDSM, happy porn, happy queer sex, all of these things need to be more common in our cultural spheres. Sex is joyful. Kink is joyful. I miss seeing images that reflect that. Tumblr filled this space in so many ways, primarily because marginalized folks could post their own content, and curate their own pages to r...