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Pamela doesn't think she did anything wrong

🕑 Added 2024-08-23 10:37:10 +0000 UTC

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Caroline

The last name "Smart" is so cursed it's heartbreaking

Christie M.

😁 ...My HS grad is my profile pic with a whole can of Aqua Net.

Mandy

Worst hair era ever

Adrian Black

The next time someone gets a little rowdy, I'm going to tell them to "put their titties back in their sweater".

Kevin Beery

You didn’t deserve that and it wasn’t your fault, I’m sorry.

Kevin Beery

The attitudes (calling it an affair, etc) in this case reminds me of that South Park episode where the boys go to the police for a similar issue and the cops just say “Nice…”. Seriously, go look up a clip if you haven’t seen it for a morbid laugh. This is exactly what they were satirizing and it was, as we see, so blatant back in the early 90s it almost seems like a parody.

PlagueDoctorIsIn

Exactly. The double standards between male and female pedophiles is disgusting. An abused child is an abused child. I feel it really hinders younger men and boys from seeking help in these circumstances, as it is essentially praised by the “where was she when i was…” crowd and not taken as seriously when the genders are flipped. It is refreshing to have them put on the same platform where they belong.

PlagueDoctorIsIn

I don’t feel she ever told her husband about the kid she was abusing. She is far too narcissistic to place herself in a light where she is on a worse level than someone she has no respect for. She enjoyed the power dynamic of controlling a child, and essentially reliving her youth through her abuse of him. It is wild that anyone with any shred of intelligence would think they could sway any portion of the argument in her favor. Pedophiles need to be drawn and quartered. On another note, I have seen and love all of your content. Your commentary is fantastic and well thought out, as well as comical in the right places. Thanks for it!

michelle shepherd

I don't understand how everyone is just so chill with her unabashedly describing an affair with a minor.

Honeycomb

That must be painful. Sounds like PTSD symptoms. I hope the best for you, though, in healing and recovering. Sometimes talking to other victims and knowing you aren't alone will help. Or just seeing the strength in other victims can be empowering. A lot of victims show amazing courage in speaking out and helping other victims. And even discussing what happened to you here is something that takes strength. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

Marc Draco

I don’t even know how to explain why that’s wrong.

You

No, a young adult is 19, 20 or 21. Fifteen is a child because the brain is not developed enough to be considered an adult. Even young adults may not have that, but 15 is more definitely a child. What YOU were capable of doing has no relevance, especially given that this kids were capable of killing. But in a sexual relationship, they are a child and in emotional power dynamics with an adult they are children. Stop excusing it. Dreading is in the right here, you, not so much.

John Saiani

I still get nightmares. I guess you can call them dream flashbacks.its been 15 years and it still feels like it just happened

VegasMel Melissa Mullin

Wow, what a GOOD VIDEO. I only knew her name, I wasn’t familiar w the case, and I don’t know the outcome. I finished this vid and something tells me that she may have caused reasonable doubt in a juror.. did this end in a mistrial? I’m not going to google it. I’m just gonna edge until Dreading puts out part 2!

My Baffled Brain

I’m so sorry John. I hope your heart heals. I’ll be praying for you ❤️

My Baffled Brain

I really appreciate that you call these women pedophiles. In MSM they are never called that. It’s always, “Woman teacher sleeps with student.” When it should be, “Woman predator sexually abuses minor male student.” Also I love the long videos. As someone that has trouble with insomnia, I find your videos and voice soothing. Weird I know since the subject matter is not. 😂

Honeycomb

I'm really sorry, John. That's so terrible. Make sure to protect your mental health and maybe take a short break from true crime involving predatory teachers. I hope you feel better soon

Marc Draco

Took me a few goes to get through it all. I've followed the case to its most recent conclusions but I'm not going to preempt what the lads have prepared and I'd ask we all do the same (those of us who go sniffing around that is). Also - what is it with American women trying to sound like little girls. It's creepy!

John Saiani

Phck. I should have taken there advice😢 I have a major trigger with what happened. I was raped by my teacher. I’m not into guys and unfortunately was forced to do such stuff.

Abbie

Oh god, Pam smart. In terrible taste, my father who grew up in NH had a shirt when he was in high school (about 5 years after this happened) that said “I dated Pam smart” and had bullet holes on it 🫠

Evonne Acevedo

Also, I was in high school myself when this took place, and I’m embarrassed at how archaic all the media seems now. “The petite blonde” in the news article 🙄

Evonne Acevedo

Good lord, whose idea was it for Pam to take the stand? How on earth did she envision the jury sympathizing with her when getting her responses was like pulling teeth?

Jess

you guys are doing gods work 💛

SatanicSphincter

"Put your tiddies back in your shirt" 💀💀

Erin E

"You put your penis down, you put your titties back in your sweater, and you go home." that's got to be my favorite quote from Dreading 🤣🤣 I laughed so hard

Snotty-Fish

I really love your long (and xtra long) videos. Thank you so much for making them

Tina

She is so emotionally immature that she would throw away her security and first love because her husband got a haircut and no longer had time to play. i.e go to rock concerts and play guitar Edit: I remember watching this story in real time as a new wife and mother. Her monotone interviews and the in-depth articles outlining the relationship between her and the teenagers, and I’m like, oh yes, she did it!

Marc Draco

Respectfully, Pam's teenage assassin wasn't a child. Children have not reached puberty. This young man, underage in the law, was just that. We don't need the additional emotional outrage suggesting this was an actual child. Those victims aren't able to make these decisions. I love this channel but I wish Theo and his brother would avoid these fallacies. When I was 15 I was quite capable of many evil things from rape to murder (not that I did any of them) but I sure as sh*t knew right from wrong; but I could have been manipulated using sex as Pam did. I was NOT a child. I was a young adult.

Kitty Farruggio

Ty for requesting this everyone! Im still hoping for Dreading’s take on Anna Stubblefield’s abuse of Derrick Johnson bc I just watched Tell Them You Love me.

Mea

imagine having your husband killed for being a poser

Mea

this case truly makes me so sad, she is such a wicked person. she literally did not admit her guilt until this year, and even then i don’t think she took full responsibility