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Should You Wait For Sex? Ft. SERGE

🕑 Added 2020-10-08 09:31:40 +0000 UTC

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nobuenokevo

Immaculate game in this one.

HumbleWonder

damn, you hit it out of the ballpark!

Justin

essentially serge is basing the relationship off of sex. zeb is basically saying that sex isn’t that important for a relationship, yes it does provide more intimacy but zeb is able to separate the pussy and the person. when serge says that he would have sex and not even want anything to do w a bitch, he himself is basing it upon sex. he can’t look past the sex to see who the person really is. he is making it way more important than it is. serge is thinking that sex comes from a relationship so he is basing it off sex. zeb thinks that it comes from attraction and that’s it and that a relationship with someone comes from compatibility and companionship. it’s like serge is doing exactly what he’s tryna avoid.

Christina

bruh serge wants a deeper understanding of each other, get to know her beyond her body, be in tune with each other, if sex holds your relationship together it’s not gonna last long, you can get sex anywhere, but a lifelong friend a lifelong person whom you see the world as something you can accomplish together is different, zen bases everything off attraction and sex, you don’t hold as much of a standard as he does, lifelong together forever is more than sex, sex is used as a tool so much that it becomes mandatory and honestly becomes so used, if you took the time to connect with someone and learn their heart i truly believe you can make it forever, your so used to sex zeb that you only see relationships through that, what is the relationship to a father and son, or a mother and her child, it’s more than friends it’s a bond. you see sex through a lease that’s needed but if you LOVE someone sex isn’t what matters it’s how they make you feel as a human

Fidel

Nah bro he just got a diff perspective and tbh it seems like if you want a long term relationship like he does, then his idea is better for that

Nate Berhanu

I think serge wanted zeb and Jason to validate his "plan" rather than give him advice . I think serge is having a hard time keeping girls he Likes INTERESTED in him . Thats how he is coming up with these damn near Disney fanatisies of how to cuff a girl. Rather than him just focusing on himself

Lloyd Irvin

U have obviously learned absolutely nothing!!

Uncle Iroh

My guy Serge trippin. A bunch of one night stands turn serious. All that matters is how two people connect. You can have sex because you’re attracted to someone and then turn it more serious because you enjoy their company and who they are. Shit happens all the time. Where you meet the girl doesn’t change who she is. That’s just your own insecurities and prejudices coming out. Your less likely to meet a wife at a bar because shes less likely to be looking to settle down, but it can still happen. Not being willing to be exclusive with someone just because you met them at a bar/club makes no sense. It’s all about their character, so unless you don’t want to wife anyone who has ever been to a bar refusing to date someone on that basis is childish. Shits simple

Samuele Pesce

This shit is so interesting!! Zeb and Jason make some very solid points n shit but i believe that you guys look at sex as a realm of pleasure and not what it truly is. Im not religeous or any of that boring shit but if you look at sex in a more intimate and romantic way, trust me you would want to know the person better if you decide to fuck or not, cause if not that shit would literally have no value and it would be the same as doing it with a hand almost. When you fuck a girl that you find extremely interesting and actually like her for who she is, the sex is 1000000000x better. This is just a thought and not tryna bash on yall

Obinna Alilonu

at the end of the day I think I agree with Jason on this one: sex will neither make nor break the relationship. you wouldn't cuff a girl you fucked on the first date bc you don't know her like that. you got with her INITIALLY bc she's fine, not because she's smart, funny, or has a good personality. No one can communicate their entire personality off rip. I think Zeb puts too much stake in the first impression, especially considering most guys look for sex, then stumble upon a relationship with the girl and not vice versa. If sex is inherently the end goal, you're not gonna give a lot of women the chance to display their good qualities. Which is why niggas would wanna wait for sex. But at the end of the day Serge is doin too much with that 2 year shit get that shit outta here lmaoo

Adam Yousef

zeb: Freinds with benefits Serge: having a girlfriend with no sex until marriage BASICALLY

TB

i think serge and jason are looking at it as a relationship type stand point i think zeb is seeing it just like friends w benifits where if he fucks and shes cool they just stay around bc theyre cool to be around while yall see it as she not gone be a good gf because she gives it up and therefore she like a fling instead of a relationship type of girl

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Fredo Porter

I feel Serge in a way, and i feel Zeb in a way (no homo). Serge’s ideas about how sex can be detrimental or upbringing in a relationship is true. But i personally don’t think it matter to wait if y’all are dating each other... you already in the relationship at they point i agree with Zeb it’s pointless. But i can’t put my finger on it all the way but i understand losing a type of interest after you fuck too soon. I think that essence comes from our personal experience and opinion on trust that there’s a reason why we do sum bitches certain ways after that do some “hoe” shit. Ion know can’t completely put my finger on it rn. But now having a friend turn into something sexual can be beautiful and bullshit. I think once you break the Barrier of fucking a friend spontaneously that u can see yourself with is when Serge’s idea may work, then I’ll go 1-2 weeks without fucking shordie too see if it’s legitimate. Ion know I’m fried rn but i fw y’all

anthony

Ayo, i was in a 2 year relationship but i tried ending things after being leached. The bitch was too clingy and had no aspirations for the future, to be honest she was a lost cause but i thought we would work together to get her shit together. But if she rocks with you and will do anything you want and she is cool with what have going for you, by all means stick with her but in conclusion i was cheated on, loyal niggahs end last and this shit hurts bro.

Malikhi Simpson

there sum nigha on tik tok feeding off of yall used zeb's fake named and all

Romeo Misa

This nigga Zeb is a Monster Cuh😂🤣The bitch that turn Zeb into a Husband gon have to be a Magician lmaoooo

Purifier Phoenix The Mecca

love before the nut is real love, love after the nut is 9/10 times false love because u fall in love with the pussy when that dopamine releases lol. Sex can only go so far, shit can get boring real quick. It's basically like eating your favorite meal everyday, little by little shit becomes common place, removing the shit that made it special because u get used to it. Serge is smarter than most, he trying to find that spiritual shit, that unbreakable shit.

Mansour Ba

My guy zeb you gotta let serge talk, have some respect bro, he just came in one episode, let him do his talk you kept interrupting , but cool video tho

Conner furtado

Andrew Boyd

For me i dont even truly know if i like a girl until we have sex.. if i hit on the first couple meet ups and i found out i didnt fw you i just saved however much time you would’ve made me wait to hit.

Francisco

Intimacy makes it into a relationship, being close and what not is a friendship and what best friendships are, that intimacy is what sets it apart because yes you’re going to be there for your friends and be a backbone. But you’ll just be a backbone for your partner just like your regular close friends? No...there has to be that intimacy whether it’s kissing or sexual it has to be there or your just another friend at that point🤷🏻‍♂️

Tucker Hicks

Serge bullshittin 😂 he must be struggling rn

stephenrock

Serge straight trippin lmfao this man making 0 sense

TexanD4

Get on some new bitches

Ryuk

if you not giving it to her someone else will be. they're all sluts

John

Aye surge what’s the best way to get over a bitch??????

Dirty Dan

And do y’all invest in stocks?

Dirty Dan

Could y’all ever cuff a girl that smashed someone you know?

rease6tymes

These niggas talked about celibacy for 2 hours and didn’t know it 😂😂😂

jeffrey

Serge so soft 😂

ZayBoutaBag8

😂

MCPAUL BROU JR

Said whoresss😭

P

thoughts on polygamy and Zeb could you see yourself in that type relationship at one point in yo life?

Deonte Powell

I’m not waiting for sex cause I’m not basing our relationship off sex... I think if you have to do that to see if you like someone... I think that’s weird “I can’t have sex with you or else imma base our whole relationship off sex” like what😂 now you just blinded by pussy and nothing else matters? Shit weird to me idk

Asa Ivey

I see and understand both of y'all sides it really comes down to how that individual person was raised and their perception of what a healthy relationship is and the value of sex. Interesting convo tho, yall should let some patreons zoom in their opinion for a lil segment during a podcast that be coo

Daniel

I fuck wit what serge was saying but I wouldn’t do it. It’s really just a different perspective and that’s all life really is at the end of the day

Danyal

There’s so much shit to talk about bro, u can ask about her major, her college, her future, her past relationships, don’t ask about her bodies on the first date, talk about urself too nigga

Open Season

Zeb needs to be part of the 4 Horseman. Reach out to AMS brother

Michael Burns

Tf is serge on😹 yo me n this might Zeb think the exact same... it’s crazy

David Corona

What to talk about when you go on a date with a bitch??

Hshwhsbss

Lmao, serge had me crying 🤣🤣I’m with zeb, I personally need the sex if imma know if I fw you or not lmao

the minorities

Lmao yea I gotta stop interrupting I be getting lost in my own sauce smh

Tyronn Rush

Serge's point with the bar situation is that he doesn't want to see her doing her whore intentions off rip. He knows their all whores but seeing her on her whore mission on initial meet is what he doesn't like. The waiting on sex theory can be right depending on the person. Kinda like a placebo effect. I'm more Zeb minded though.