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I have a principle:
🕑 Added 2025-11-08 11:10:25 +0000 UTCNever vent my negative emotions at my family. That "family" can mean my actual home, or any group I belong to. The key point is, if I see it as a safe haven, then the harmony is everything. I shall know that no one inside is obligated to carry my emotions.
If arguments keep happening, the air fills with distrust and the warmth fades away. In that case, I destroyed my own haven. No matter what and how justified I felt, I am the one who struck first.
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Ian W.
This is very admirable, and something I think we should all strive for, but don't forget that your community is here for you to lean on in times of trouble too. We're here for you ❤️
Henry Walker
We all need safe places for peace, but we also need safe places where we can vent our issues, and possibly get some feedback about them. It is vital in life to have both. The trick here is picking our places/people who understand and can support us through these issues. Payment here is in the form of trust.
