2023 Important Update - The Big Move
🕑 Added 2023-01-05 23:07:17 +0000 UTCHappy New Year, everyone! I intended to post this over a week ago, but I've been crazy busy. I've always wanted to be a very transparent content creator, keeping you guys updated on what is going on in my life. Over the last few years my life has felt very stagnant and I think some of that has surfaced in my content. I've wanted a big change for a while and now I'm about to get it.
I'll be moving from New York to Seattle in a few days by myself. I have no family or friends there, so it's both exciting and terrifying. I've wanted to live in the Pacific Northwest ever since I was a kid. Now that I'm in my 30s, have the flexibility of working from home, with nothing but family tying me down to NY, it's now or never -- a leap of faith. I'm out of the old apartment and at my parent's place with all my stuff in boxes. I'll be heading out in a rental SUV on a 42hr drive starting the 9th and arriving in Seattle the night of the 14th.
A lot of you don't know it, but this is my primary source of income and last year was supposed to be my "go for it year" as I quit my previous job. If anything, I found my output even worse. I couldn't focus, I had no drive or motivation, and I never got to implement things like Twitch streaming, gaming streams, podcasting, ect. that I had always planned. My Youtube growth stalled to a halt because I couldn't remain consistent, and Patron numbers wavered, which really adds lots of stress. I am fully confident this new start will instill a new life within me, making 2023 my year.
I appreciate so many of you supporting me throughout a year in which I was severely lacking, as well as this tumultuous time of transition where I can't upload any content. If I am to make this viable for myself, I need to up my Patreon numbers and find alternate sources of supplemental income like Twitch. I think we'll be able to accomplish that in 2023 once I am settled.
I've always said that I've needed more structure for both myself and the output of my content so you guys know what to expect. I know I'm capable, I've just needed a change in scenery to give my life an adrenaline shot.
Thank you all so, so much for your support and good faith in me. I'm filled with lots of anxious optimism for what a new city will bring.
(Remember to join our Discord btw, where I've talked about this whole process a lot over the last 3 months! You gain access just by being a Patron at any level. We are very welcoming and chat about all different topics outside of kpop like tv and sports! Make sure your Discord email is the same as your Patron email and it'll give you access.)
Comments
Kenneth
I live across the lake from Seattle. Have a safe cross country drive.
David Nilsson
Happy new year and best of luck to you <3
John Kang
Really exciting stuff. Good luck with the drive! Wave hello to Chicago!
Luna
Happy New Year and Good Luck!!
seekified
I'm excited for you, man. As someone who once took a similar leap, I know how much it can make you grow. 💪 It will also be tough and there will be days where you wonder what the hell you've done, but that's fine. It's part of it. If you want any more help with organizational stuff, spreadsheets, whatever, feel free to poke me any time. I'm happy to help in any way I can.
Lunoki
I have friends in Seattle. They love it there for the most part. I hope everything works out for you and am happy to be one of your patrons.
Isla Nd
Seattle's a great place to live, especially in the summer. All the luck to you!
Qwarky
Already talked about it on Patreon but i think this gonna be a great change for you! Can't to see what you're cooking for us in 2023.
Juliette P
Happy new year! Be safe 🥰
Song
FALLOUT NEW VEGAS LETS GO
IndigoAir
I get that, I moved to the other side of the country too back in 2013. There's nothing to be gained from letting things stagnate though, it'll just drive you more crazy the longer it goes on.
Christina M Villa
Be safe on your way! Especially with these winter storms!
Lauryn L
Good luck and safe travels!
lolitsmike
Good luck! Super excited for you!
Chris C
Good Luck and all the best! you must be so excited and scared/nervous all at the same time. Nothing beats making that leap of faith and stepping outside of your comfort zone to reinvigorate your plans etc so really well done for being brave and talking that step forward, just know the community and more importantly your family is there for you if you ever get tired or exhausted and need someone to talk to :) I'll be waiting for when i can up my tier and get requests in so take your time and looking forward to see your growth.
Destinycbn
Good luck ❤️
Tilly Wilson
Good luck🖤
KpopPrince
My mom isn't happy with it, but I can't live here my entire life.
KpopPrince
I'll need all I can get, thank you! 💜
Cassandra J.
Safe traveling! Don’t talk to strangers until your settled and safe. I hope this sparks your flames. Make sure to eat and rest when tired. Oh and give regular updates to family while traveling. I’ll stop sounding like a mom now.
KpopPrince
I'll have my anxious little kitty with me so I don't think I can. I'll be 45m away from Mt Rushmore at one point. Plus Deadwood SD is where the HBO show Deadwood takes place. An old western town with casinos!
KpopPrince
This isn't the exact route I'll be taking, though I think I'll be going through WI for a bit. I'm taking the route through SD instead of ND. My hotel stays will be outside of Toledo OH, Rochester MN, Deadwood SD, and Missoula MT. If any of you know about these places lmk haha. They're fully refundable so I could always change plans.
Stefan K
Safe travels! You must be so nervous/excited, I hope everything goes well~
IndigoAir
I hope that you're getting to enjoy a little time with your family before the long drive. Wishing you a safe and pleasant trip!
silvs
good luck!!
Finnalian
I've got a Twitch Prime waiting for ya once you get setup
Song
You need to go see those weird attractions as you drive across. I want a picture of that big ball of string or whatever 😂
Robert Arthur
I hope you are able to enjoy your cross country trip, Paul. You will be going through my state (Wisconsin). Stay tuned into the weather, because that route can have some sudden icy conditions this time of year.
KpopPrince
Nothing tops the Rangers. Though I've always had a soft spot for Seattle-based teams. The Winter Classic will be in Seattle for 2024
Steph M
Best of luck with the trip and the move! It's great to hear how excited you are about it, really hope everything works out well for you in 2023. Safe travels 💜
Taylor 53
So now that your in Seattle are you kraken fan now haha
Justin_AndaKage
Have a safe trip.