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Who needs a little dating advice?🙋🙋🏻‍♀️

🕑 Added 2025-04-08 17:01:42 +0000 UTC

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Alexandra Imperiale

Expensive as in you go on a lot of dates that don't end up turning into anything?

Brian Davis

Yeah I'm finding it tough as well and expensive I tend to ramble go thru credits like a made man

Alexandra Imperiale

Thanks for sharing! This is interesting because I know there is a big pool of you who are a little more mature (60+) and so the issue is not necessarily knowing how to flirt, Or building confidence etc. From the sound of it, seems like you have confidence! Being able to ask a woman to dance takes it! Sometimes it’s about finding somewhat age-appropriate. This is where my experience is lacking a little bit, simply because I lack the experience (as in my immediate experience is around people my age). I do know some sex educators/therapists who talk a a lot about sex and dating after 50. I’m wondering if it would be helpful to have them on as a guest and chat about it!

Kirk Evenson

As an older guy in an ENM marriage it's more difficult to find matches. If I was 25 or 35 it would be easy. But in my late 60s it's certainly more difficult. I've grown to not like the online match making services at all. Girls with online match making services who are in their 30s, 40s and 50s don't show any interest - at all - in a guy in his 60s. But I have found that when I go to social dances that I have much more luck meeting women - since women love to dance whether it's waltz, west coast swing, rumba, etc - and that then gives me a chance to have fun, flirt and maybe more. Plus there are a fair number of married but unattached women at dances since it isn't unusual for their husbands to have no interest in going dancing with them :-)