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An Introduction to Age Regression & Age Play
🕑 Added 2022-08-24 17:36:19 +0000 UTCI’ve been getting a similar line of questions lately: can you have Little tendencies without fully regressing? Would that be viewed as age play? Age play gets a lot of bad rep, but to be honest I think it’s vastly underrated.
Whether you’re an age regressor and/or age player - being your younger self has loads of benefits.
Age regression
Age regression is a process where the person regresses back to a younger age. This is either voluntary (triggered on purpose) or involuntary (triggered by circumstances outside the person’s control).
Age regression is NEVER sexual - and if someone tries to make it sexual, they are abusing the age regressor.
Age regression is NOT the sexualisation of minors.
The age regressor will act, think, and talk according to the age they regress to.
Age regression is a trauma response, and it helps people cope with trauma, relieve their stress, help handle their mental health problems, and heal their inner child.
Age regression cannot necessarily be controlled or “snapped out of” - especially not when it’s a trauma response.
Age regression does not necessarily fall under the BDSM umbrella as it is NOT a kink, but it is widely accepted and welcomed as part of the community.
People can regress on their own, without a caregiver.
Age play
Age play is the process in which a person acts a specific age, it is as much role playing as anything else in BDSM. This is when the person chooses (so fully voluntary) to play a specific role.
Age play can be either sexual or non-sexual, depending on the participants’ desired outcomes for the scene, their limits, and what they have negotiated.
An age player can revert back to their adult self at the end of the scene, whenever they choose to do so.
Age playing is NOT the sexualisation of minors.
Age playing falls under the BDSM umbrella, as there is a power exchange between a dominant and submissive. This does not necessarily mean that the age player is the submissive or bottom. Kink is customisable, and therefore age play scenes are too. An age player might be a spoilt little Princess who has their Daddy wrapped around their finger, or a Little that enjoys bossing about older Siblings, or a royal Middle that enjoys toying with servants and nannies. My point stands here: there is an obvious power exchange in this type of play.
Age players can also feel a sense of comfort and safety from their caregivers. Age playing provides an escape from the adult world of stress, expectations, deadlines, work, bills, mental health problems and so forth. Age play can also help relieve stress, just be total fun, and can also help to heal the inner child.
Age play lifestyle
This seems to be a sort of mix between age regression and age play.
The person can be Little every day, to some degree. It is a mindset, a core part of this person’s personality, rather than a role that they play within a scene.
Lifestyle Littles can regress as well.
So, to answer the original question: yes, you can have Little tendencies without fully regressing. You can be a combination between age regressor and age player. There is no rule that says you can only tick one box. I can’t tell you upfront whether it would be age play or age regression. You could, for example, start off with age play and end up regressed in Little space - or vice versa, as you’re coming out of regression. Whatever happens, is fine and valid and wonderful. As long as you’re practising safe, sane and consensual BDSM, you’re good. Don’t let the world of ignorant people ever make you think otherwise.
Go forth and explore, little one, and share your experiences here with us in our safe space.
