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Would I be proud
🕑 Added 2022-12-08 20:33:00 +0000 UTC“If I knew that my child would turn out exactly like my partner, would I be okay with that?”
The same goes for the person with whom you are in a closest relationship.
No matter what traits or behaviors might bother you about them, at the end of the day, would you be alright with a child turning out just like they are?
This is not only a way to evaluate your partner’s true character, but a way to determine if you actually do want to continue with your relationship — if there are too many red flags, too many habits you wouldn’t want a child to pick up on, the answer might be no.
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Thank you I really loved it here near where Michelle has her holiday cottage. Yes it is good education as they can see they can work through things like if a child sees a misalignment and then sees that the parents can find acceptance or solution and move on even with different opinions they can learn conflict resolution skills. Compassion and kindness are so important for a child to learn and so many do not.
Such a beautiful setting you were in for this shoot. Some gorgeous and unique photos were taken. I have always thought that, when partners actually decide to try to work things out, this could be beneficial for the child. When one partner starts to show positive changes and begins to see the other, I can’t think of a better education for the child. They will actually see compassion and kindness being given from one to the other. They will see restraint, acceptance, cooperation and two different personalities from which the child can take the good stuff, learn and grow and build their own selves.
This was by Michelle and her photographer friend Jason he took both our photos here as we walked to climb the tree. I agree your partner should be willing change. Sadly I have not experienced it as much your father and mother sounds like a wonderful thoughtful partnership
Rhyanna, is this a photo by Michelle? You look so sad and lonely, I can barely contain my tears. This is one of the most deep questions you have asked. You have chosen your partner supposedly because they have traits that you admire and love. If your child adapted these traits you would be happy. But if your partner has certain traits that bother you and you see your child tending in that direction, you could talk to your partner and try to help them change these traits for the good of your child. My mother got my father to give up smoking a pipe when she found out we were starting to smoke. Your partner should understand and be willing to change for you and your child. But since I don't have a partner nor a child my opinion is just that only my opinion. Sorry.
