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Flexing your erotic imagination
🕑 Added 2024-07-09 23:00:03 +0000 UTCFlexing your Erotic Imagination
Imagine for a moment that you are laying under a lilac sky, in a field of extra-terrestrial
flowers, being penetrated by tentacles. Now envision yourself sinking into the eyes of your
lover, melting together like wax while an electrical storm pulsates in the spaces between
your touch. Where will your pleasure guide you next? Are you the main character? Or, are
you voyeuristically witnessing your own mind fuck itself into oblivion? Whether you dream
up your own fantasies or absorb inspiration from porn, cliterature / smut, ASMR, etc. there
is something I want you to consider…
Did you know that focusing on the same fantasy each time you flick the bean or stroke the
peen can impact your mental health? Just to geek out for a cute sec…repetition of a fantasy
is reinforced through reward of pleasure / orgasm and myelination of neuronal networks.
Repetition of this nature can limit mental flexibility and capacity for pleasure by reducing
arousal to a specific scenario. This can lead to desensitisation, escalation (need for a
stronger hit) and full-blown dependency. Exclusively getting off to your lover/s is risky
business and can actually impact real-life intimacy. Consistent idealisation of a person can
result in unrealistic expectations, pressure, and obsessive attachment. If you want to feel
close to your partner/s when you get off, it could be fun to experiment together.
Diversifying your fantasies will maintain a sense of excitement, responsiveness and
creativity, while supporting neurological health.
In essence, variety is the spice of life! You are the mixologist of your own mind, let’s switch
it up baby! Stretch that spectrum of arousal; ignite your senses, explore foreign landscapes,
taste the flavours of the rainbow and lose yourself in a wilderness of erotic intrigue. The
world is your sexy oyster…who knows where it will take you next…?
Miss Ivy xo
