DivyMoon
fansly
🕑 Added 2023-01-15 00:34:22 +0000 UTC
Hiiii everyone, and happy Saturday! I hope you are having a wonderful and restful weekend💕
I just wanted to make a blanket statement post on something that I’ve had to address in chat, as it is important to me that everyone is on the same page moving forward.
I am trying to build an inclusive community, and as part of that…I will have male, female and non-binary viewers. I want chat to be comfortable experience for all my viewers, regardless of gender. They should be able to participate in chat openly, freely and comfortably.
As someone who is streaming and putting on a NSFW show, I am entering a certain space of consent. As I’ve shared more with you, you have began to understand what I like, and what I’m comfortable with. If I am not comfortable with something I will address it as I have the platform and we have the dynamic where I can do so comfortably.
Other viewers, have not consented to you speaking to them in a sexual manner. You do not know their sexuality/ their comfort levels etc. So praising / encouraging / and directly responding to them when they are expressing themselves/ engaging with me, etc is not acceptable. I should not have the tacked on responsibility of making sure everyone in chat is feeling comfortable while I am putting on a show.
I should also not have another female in the cummunity coming to me telling me they will not chat as much because they don’t want to divert attention away from my show or me. I shout out/ praise other creators often. It is fine to show support in those moments but it should not go further than that. Females/ nbs should feel just as comfortable chatting in streams as my male viewership without the worry of being directly responded to or hit on.
Quite frankly it’s also just very disrespectful to me. I work very hard to provide good experiences for you all and to please you the best I can. It has been really disheartening to have moments where chat has completely started ignoring me to start engaging someone in chat.
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