Thank you for your patience, here is my first blog entry on ..
🕑 Added 2021-03-10 11:28:38 +0000 UTC
Thank you for your patience, here is my first blog entry on being a sugar baby since that topic piqued your interest the most.
Leave a comment below if you enjoyed reading this or have questions you want me to touch on in the next part !
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The Sweet Life of being a Sugar Baby
PART 1
Yes, I have dipped my toes into the sugar pot briefly after a relationship break up. I don’t have any regrets about it because overall it was a positive experience and it could have gone so so wrong in many ways. I was wined and dined. I had some really mentally stimulating conversations. I got paid. I was treated with respect.
I would consider myself lucky that I found myself an arrangement with someone who wasn’t too much older than me and wasn’t an average Joe with ‘a bit’ of extra savings to spoil a yo u n g lady. Yes even sugar daddies have different tiers, it is unfortunate but a lot of men with average income believe they can be sugar daddies. I feel like a TRUE sugar daddy should have at least few million in net worth. That was the goal for me, go big or go home : ) also I know for a fact I wouldn’t have much competition with other sugar babies. I was private school educated. I am well spoken. I am relatively attractive. I am asian (hello yellow fever). I don’t come from a poor socio-economic family. I am well travelled (sort of). As far as I was concerned there wasn’t much for me to lose, after being gold dug by my ex boyfriend it was time to live a little!
I was going through a really crazy time in my life at that stage and I had just started my first antidepressants. I guess that made me a bit numb to feeling anything and may have affected my thinking to be more YOLO than usual.
Before I created a profile on seekingarrangements.com I did some background research first on what I would be dealing with. I’ve always enjoyed reading so learning about the sugar lifestyle was quite interesting for me. Tumblr was an absolute gold mine of information, I owe a lot of my knowledge to these girls. One of the main issues with ‘sex work’ is safety and privacy. I wasn’t as worried about people finding out about this compared to getting ki dna pp e d and murdered. I’m just a natural overthinker and like to plan things or be prepared for anything. Here are some crucial sugar baby guidelines I learned.
Always tell someone you trust where you are going.
Always m e e t a POT (potential sugar daddy) in public.
Never use your real name.
Background screen your SD (sugar daddy) before meeting up.
Use an anonymous messaging app and never give out your real number.
(To be continued...)
