Sexxx Ed: The Power of Fantasies!๐๐ฆ๐
Ahhh, what a great, gr..
🕑 Added 2023-01-18 20:00:37 +0000 UTC
Sexxx Ed: The Power of Fantasies!๐๐ฆ๐
Ahhh, what a great, great livestream!!!!
We covered so much! We talked about:
- my upbringing and how my very limited knowledge about fantasies was laden with judgment.
- the difference between culturally acceptable fantasies and personal fantasies
- how I discovered what my fantasies were after a very repressed upbringing!
And then I went deep in telling you the story behind one of my hottest and most romantic dates using fantasy!!!
And here's what I learned from that experience:
- Fantasies can be fulfilled in the acting out of them (this is great news if fulfilling your actual fantasy might cause harm to someone or to your partner! Ie: inc.est, mistress, etc)
- It draws you two closer (Iโm more in love with my date because he honored my fantasy!)
- Itโs birthed other fantasy date ideas (coming home from work in menโs shirt and tie and nothing else;)
- Butterflies can be felt again!
- A little creativity and planning can go a loooong way
- Iโve already bought Valentineโs gifts for my date (as a non-planner!) because Iโm still floating from that weekend
- Iโm thinking about how I can fulfill HIS fantasies
- Fantasies are more than they what they seem - they help us connect more deeply with ourselves - and others!
- Why theyโre so effective - theyโre a reflection and connection to one of the deepest parts of you! Fantasies are special, intimate, and quite vulnerable to share with others.
- Fantasies can unleash new levels of pleasure and connection, creativity and playfulness
And then of course, I left you guys with some homework questions because I'm still a teacher at heart!:)
- What do I find myself thinking about all the time? What desires do I have? (These will help you realize some of your fantasies!)
- Which fantasies of mine MUST be fulfilled in your lifetime and which ones are you okay with possibly not fulfilling during your lifetime?
- What different ways can I fulfill those desires?
- What do I need to know or have in place so I feel safe in sharing my desires/fantasies with my date/partner/person?
- What do I need to do in order to be a safe person for my partner/date to share their fantasies with me? Can I communicate that now and up front?
- How can I incorporate my fantasies in everyday ways?
If you were there LIVE or watch the replay, let me know below what stood out to you the most!!!
And of course, if you have ideas or suggestions for future Sexxx Ed topics, please let me know below!!!
Love you!!!
