iShyNya
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🕑 Added 2023-10-17 14:40:41 +0000 UTC
Communicating with other people is a tricky thing.
Even if you are the friendliest person in the world, sooner or later you will meet someone who will get on your nerves.
Don't worry if you don't like someone. We're all different. And such a reaction reminds us that no one is perfect. Including ourselves.
It's okay. Some people like you and others can't stand you. It doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you or others. It's just that we all have our own preferences.
If the answer "I don't want to" is not accepted and further explanation is required, it is abuse. You don't have to socialize with those you don't feel comfortable doing so with
If you want to maintain mental health, always make choices in your favor. Can't manage to completely avoid contact with a person? At least minimize all meetings and conversations.
This also applies when the other person refuses to communicate with you and does not want to contact you (do not confuse this with shyness), you will not be nice to another person by force. It is more likely to cause this person resentment, irritation and sadness. and you will eventually suffer or hate this person for your wasted efforts and constant refusals from this person.
Take care of yourself and your personal boundaries. Communicate with those who appreciate you, whom you appreciate and with whom you feel comfortable and interesting
