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I have publicly posted about how I got into the hotwifing li..
🕑 Added 2024-04-30 14:01:13 +0000 UTC I have publicly posted about how I got into the hotwifing lifestyle but I don't think I've ever shared how I've gotten into content creation. So I'm sorry but another long read post is incoming 😄I have been a hotwife now for close to 7 years. And ever since I've indulged in the hotwifing lifestyle, I've always have made some pictures and videos for my hubby or my play partners and sharing some of myself online on swinging sites. Over time I became more and more comfortable with it and just as a little experiment even got into used panty selling and some custom content selling. This was around 5 or 6 years ago, I did it for maybe 6 months but decided to stop due to the admin work it required.
When OF rose in popularity, I didn't even consider joining it. I didn't believe that anyone wanted to see it nor did I think it was for me. It also so happened to be at the time when I put the lifestyle a little on hold as I didn't feel comfortable in my body and had other issues to work through.
In 2021 I started to get a little bit back into the swinging / hotwifing lifestyle, or at least attempted it. I didn't have much luck at first, feeling uncomfortable with the pandemic weight I've put on and being a bit rusty in the scene it did take me a while to get things going. By the end of the year I started to get back into making some pics and the odd video. So early 2022 I had a throwaway conversation with hubby about OF, he encouraged me to give it a go, to share my journey. At worst I'm just talking to nobody for a while but creating the same pics I would do without it and at best, I'll get a little extra pocket money.
From the very beginning, the idea was to just share what I do without my online presence. I never made a marketing plan or never wanted to squeeze money out of people. If they genuinely wanted to support me, I'd be over the moon, if not, it's totally understandable.
But I quickly shifted to being more of a people pleaser as I naturally am, and started to experiment with posts that I would make privately. My first posts were pretty terrible and for the first 6 months, I felt awkward in front of a camera, especially when filming. I only made 30 second clips as I couldn't force myself to make longer videos, I felt uncomfortable masturbating in front of a camera.
But over time with the encouragement of my fans, I have grown so much, I'm a lot more comfortable in front of the camera, I have orgasmed countless times in front of it, I've made content with others, I've written true and fictional stories, visited several swinger clubs (once even on my own), I've explored several different kinks, outfits, toys and have had endless conversations with people from all over the world. Built friendships and even m3t a few in person.
I have grown and will continue to grow as a creator and as a person. I'm still learning and I'm still exploring. At any given time it still feels that my journey is only beginning and I'm not anywhere near my destination.
I still think I'm pretty bad at monetizing what I do. Over 2 years into it and I still don't have a "tip menu" / "price list" and it is mostly because of how I treat OF. It is more of a platform for me to share and connect, rather than provide services. When I sext, I sext genuinely and I cum, but that also means I don't do it on a spontaneous request and I don't do it often. I do custom content but most of the requests I either reject or convince people that I'm not a good fit for it. And when I do them, I do them in my own time which can take a while. I can have quite a bad attitude towards people that join and try to take advantage of me or at least the people who give off that impression.
All the above probably make me a pretty terrible OF content creator but somehow it works. In the era where people outsource "admin work" on OF to maximize profits, some of you really enjoy the bratty genuine personality, even when you can't always get what you want from me.
I'm getting sidetracked from the original point of the post, so I think I better stop freestyling and wrap it up 😂Maybe if people are interested, I'll go into more detail of how I do things but that is for another day
